I was happily reading along on a blog (don’t ask me where, because I didn’t bookmark it) when I came across this awful misquote “money is the root of all evil,” and I had to keep myself from yelling at the computer screen.
The actual quote is “the love of money is the root of all kinds of evil” from 1 Timothy 6:10.
I think this quote, along with the mindset that comes with it, is where lots of people get hung up with regards to their own finances. I’ve heard artists and other creatives misquote this verse as an excuse for why they’re broke, and a justification for why they hate “sell-outs.”
It’s a huge stuck based around the cognitive dissonance of that misquote and the capitalist, consumer-driven, money-centric society us westerners are brought up in.
The thought process may go something like this….
Money is evil. Therefore I must hate money. And I must hate those with money. Because Money is Evil.
But I need money to buy things I need. And I want other stuff that costs money. I wish I had as much money as (insert “rich” person here). If I did, everything would be awesome.
But money is evil… I can’t want money because then I’ll be evil.
*head explodes*
That’s more than enough to cause some major stuckness, and in some cases neuroses, when it comes to handling and managing your finances. In business, this can shut you down.
So let’s dispell the myth that money is evil.
Money is by nature neutral.
It’s a thing we invented to make concrete the abstract concept of value, as a means of exchange.
It can be used for good or all kinds of evil, but that takes a person.
A person can be corrupted by the love of money and the wrong-headed focus on loving money over loving people. That’s where things and people get screwed up. Even people who are broke can fall into this trap and end up seething with jealousy, feeling like a victim and harboring hate towards those who have what they don’t.
But money is not the root of all evil. Not by a long shot.
But the love of money heaps on all kinds of trouble.
What all this means for me: My pursuit of profit in my business is perfectly OK. I’m not a bad person just because I charge for my work.
And I don’t begrudge anyone else their pursuit of a profitable business.
The fact is, you can’t tell anything about me or anyone else just by how much money they have, except that they have money. But you can get a pretty good idea of what kind of person someone isĀ if you look at what she does and how she uses herĀ resources.
The only thing I can say for sure about money is:
Money is an amplifier.
If you’re an asshole when you’re broke, chances are you’ll be an even bigger asshole when you’re rolling in it. And the way you spend your money will reflect that.
But if you’re loving, generous and kind, more money will give you the resources to be just that on a bigger scale.
So remember the next time someone slings “money is the root of all evil” at you, that it’s really the love of money. First love others and yourself. Money’s just a thing for you to use how you see fit.
What do you think? Leave a comment below!
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Amen.
The thing about money…it doesn’t really care about anything. It doesn’t care about you or anyone else. It cold care less about good or evil. It’s just paper. That’s it.
If you’re wondering if you have an emotional attachment to money…take a $20 and tear it in half. Then tear it again. Then again. If you stop at the point where you can still tape it together…you’ve got problems.
Emotional attachment to paper is not a good thing.
Money could be anything, like Alexia points out it is just an exchange of value. One thing for another.
BTW I love money….
A wise woman once told me that whenever I think about what I’d feel like if I had “LOTS OF MONEY”, I should just feel that now.
Lots of money to me equals peace. Hey, I can feel peace now.
I really like your idea that money is an amplifier. I hadn’t thought of it that way before. Indeed it is.
Thanks for putting this delicate subject so clearly, Alexia.
Artists especially have some big hang ups about money. I count myself among those who have had to learn the hard way….about how to have a healthy relationship with the stuff. Cuz, you know, we aren’t taught that sort of stuff. We just get what we get from our families, culture, etc. I had to unlearn a lot of negative beliefs that weren’t even my own.
I found the Abraham-Hicks book on Money and the Law of Attraction a tremendous help. It’s not just about money…it’s about how we think, really. Very practical.
And Molly Gordon’s money coaching work I heartily recommend.
The good news is…we can learn how to do money better. If we make it a conscious study…and go easy on ourselves. What an emotionally charged topic!
@Yolanda – you may love money but chances are you love people more… right?
@Bridget – my feelings about money kinda shifted when I heard from someone else that money is an amplifier.
@Lisa You’re welcome & thanks for your comment! I’m not much of a LOA fan (major problems with the whole concept… but that’s another post
), but I think Molly’s fantastic.
One of the things I hope to do with my coaching is help creatives get over that money block. The way most of us were brought up to think about money is a bit skewed & instills some pretty crappy beliefs.
@ Bridget – I like your thoughts on money and peace, it struck a chord with me.
And money as an amplifier made me nod my head. I hope when I’m rich (ahem) I’ll not be an asshole.
Hi Alexia,
I like the money is an amplifier too.
Good post, it’s amazing how many times this verse is incorrectly quoted.